When Driving Is Not An Option
(How to communicate driver safety to your loved one)
Driving demands good judgment, quick reaction times and split-second decision making. A diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease alone is not a reason to take away driving privileges. But due to the progressive nature of Alzheimer’s, a person with the disease will eventually be unable to drive.
It’s often difficult to decide when to stop or limit driving. To help make this decision, get a driving evaluation from a certified professional.
Ideally, caregivers should talk openly about driving soon after a diagnosis. They should make plans for how the person will get around when he or she can no longer drive.
Signs of unsafe driving
The following behaviors may be signs that it is time to stop driving:
- Forgetting how to locate familiar places
- Failing to observe traffic signals
- Making slow or poor decisions
- Driving at inappropriate speeds
- Becoming angry and confused while driving
- Hitting curbs
- Using poor lane control
- Making errors at intersections
- Confusing the brake and gas pedals
- Returning from a routine drive later than usual. The person may be wandering and getting lost in the car. Consider enrolling the person in MedicAlert + Safe Return.
Steps to take if the person won’t give up the keys
Losing the independence driving provides can be upsetting, and it may be hard to give up the car keys. If the person with dementia insists on driving, caregivers, friends or family members may need to take extra steps, including:
- Encourage law enforcement to issue a citation.
- Ask a doctor to write the person a “do not drive” prescription.
- Control access to the car keys.
- Disable the car by removing the distributor cap or the battery.
- Keep the care out of sight. Seeing the car may act like a visual cue to drive.
- Assure the person that a ride will be available if he or she needs to go somewhere. Have a list of contacts who can provide transportation, such as family members, friends, community transportation services or ComForcare Senior Services.
- Have prescription medicines, groceries or meals delivered, reducing the person’s need to drive.
- Have the person tested by the Department of Motor Vehicles.
